Relationship coaching — Tsahai Ungar

The work
of love.

A quiet, devoted practice for those willing to look honestly at what's between them — and to tend to it.

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20+

Years in practice

600+

Couples & individuals

5

Continents served

94%

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Offerings

Ways we can work together.

Each pathway is shaped to where you are right now — alone, together, or somewhere in between.

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One to one

A private space to listen inward. We move at the pace your heart can hold — untangling old patterns and remembering what's true for you in love.

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For couples

Sit with what's hard, together. We slow the loops down, soften the defenses, and find the conversation underneath the conversation.

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Deeper work

An ongoing container for those ready to go further — into intimacy, into honesty, into the kind of love that asks something real of you.

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Tsahai Ungar, relationship coach
◦ Meet Tsahai

A quiet pioneer in
the work of love.

Tsahai has spent two decades listening — to people, to patterns, to the tender places relationships ask us to enter. Her work is shaped less by method and more by a deep, careful attention to what wants to be seen.

She holds her practice as a kind of devotion. There is no formula here — only presence, honesty, and the long view that love asks of all of us.

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In their words

People who've done
the work.

"We came in barely speaking. Six months later, we're not the same couple — we're the couple we always hoped we could be. Tsahai's work doesn't paper over anything. It goes underneath it."

M. & J.

Together 11 years · Brooklyn

"I'd done therapy. I'd done workshops. Nothing landed until I sat with Tsahai. She has a way of seeing what you're protecting before you do — and never makes you feel small for it."

Anya R.

Individual client · London

"She is the rare practitioner who is both extraordinarily warm and uncompromisingly honest. I refer my own friends to her."

Dr. Saira Mehta

Clinical psychologist

How beginning works

Three steps. No pressure.

  1. 01

    Reach out

    Write a few lines about what's bringing you here.

  2. 02

    Discovery call

    A free thirty-minute video conversation, no pressure.

  3. 03

    Begin

    If it feels right, we set a rhythm and start the work.

Common questions

Before we begin.

No. Coaching looks forward — at the relationship you're building and the person you're becoming inside it. If clinical support is what you need, I'll help you find it.

Both. Many people begin alone and bring their partner in later. Others come together from the start. Either way is welcome.

Most of the work happens over a few months of regular sessions. The first conversation is where we feel into the right rhythm for you.

Sessions are held over video, in a quiet, private space. You can join from wherever you are in the world.

With a conversation. No forms, no pressure — just a chance to talk and sense whether this is the right fit.

Ready to begin?

Love is a practice.

Discovery calls are free, thirty minutes, and held over video. We'll talk about what's here, what you want, and whether we're a fit.

Book your discovery session

hello@tsahaiungar.com